面對現實，不要在抗拒與接受之間猶疑，因為我們需要及時采取行动。在猶疑中浪費時間，等於浪費生命，錯失機會。一切抗拒都應針對未來的想像，而不是已發生的事情，因為已發生的事情無法改變。
無論我們抗拒什麼，越是抗拒，它對我們的影響就越大，我們的看法就會變得越固執。就像在泥濘中掙扎，我們越用力，陷得就越深。如果我們否定某些事物的存在，它們就會變得更具吸引力。既然事物能夠存在，就必定有其存在的理由。因此，接受它的存在，並觀察它如何發展，才是一個更合理的做法。
當我們抗拒現實，恐懼就會產生。一旦將抗拒轉變為接受，我們的勇氣就會使恐懼消失。當我們理解這一點，就會毫不猶疑地接受生命所帶來的一切。這種接受，不僅是對現實接受，也包括對抗拒的理解和包容，所以是一種完整的、沒有衝突的狀態。
透過接受過去的缺點，我們可以進步得更快。當我們接受自己的無知，就能學到更多。同樣，當我們接受自己有需要，就會開始滿足自己的需要。能夠接受一切，體現了我們意識的成長，意味著我們擁有一個健康、完整的自我。
停止內心的掙扎，停止否定、抗拒的想法和行為，坦然接受現實，順應自然的變化和發展。當我們學會接受，內心就會變得更加平靜，煩惱也會減少。接受和適應，並不意味著我們放棄改變的可能性。相反，它讓我們能夠更清晰看到機會，並採取積極的行動。一切都在發展和變化，唯有接受現在，扎根現實，我們才能創造更好的未來。
沒有甚麼是不能接受的，包括死亡。抗拒意味著缺乏意識。它不僅無法給予我們安全感，還會讓我們失去做事的理性基礎。有些事情可能難以接受，例如失去親人或受傷，但我們總是必須接受它。所以，越早接受它，我們就能越早開始新的生活。
擁有接受一切的心態，可以讓我們變得更積極。當我們接受浪費存在的事實，就會更自覺地實踐環保。當我們意識到謊言在社會上無處不在，並接受這個現實，就會促使我們更堅定地選擇誠實，以維護信任和真理。即使只是接受"接受一切"的想法，也能幫助我們逐漸化解內心的抗拒情緒，培養包容的心態。
毫不猶疑地接受，其實是對自己生命的一種回饋，也體現了我們對生命和世界的熱愛。世界的現實讓我們體驗了生活，所以接受現實就意味著接受生活中的一切。這樣的接受並非妥協，而是一種明智的選擇。透過接受，我們將找到真正的自己，並發現生命的意義、目的、使命和價值。
33. 平等看待一切事物 (上一篇)
35. 辨別需要和欲望 (下一篇)
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The path to Tranquility (34)
Acceptance without hesitation
Face the reality and don't hesitate between resistance and acceptance, because we need to take action in time. Wasting time in hesitation is equivalent to wasting life and missing opportunities. All resistance should be directed against the imagination of the future, not against what has happened, because what has happened cannot be changed.
Whatever we resist, the more we resist it, the more it affects us and the more stubborn our views become. Just like struggling in mud, the harder we push, the deeper we sink. If we deny the existence of certain things, they become more attractive. Since things can exist, there must be a reason for their existence. Therefore, it is a more reasonable approach to accept its existence and observe how it develops.
When we resist reality, fear arises. Once we transform resistance into acceptance, our courage will make fear disappear. When we understand this, we will accept everything that life brings without hesitation. This kind of acceptance is not only acceptance of reality, but also includes understanding and tolerance of resistance, so it is a complete and conflict-free state.
By accepting our past shortcomings, we can progress faster. When we accept our ignorance, we can learn more. Likewise, when we accept that we have needs, we begin to meet our needs. Being able to accept everything reflects the growth of our consciousness and means that we have a healthy and complete self.
Stop the inner struggle, stop the denying and resisting thoughts and behaviors, accept the reality calmly, and adapt to the changes and development of nature. When we learn to accept, our hearts become calmer and our worries decrease. Acceptance and adaptation do not mean that we give up the possibility of change. Instead, it enables us to see opportunities more clearly and take positive action. Everything is developing and changing. Only by accepting the present and rooting ourselves in reality can we create a better future.
Nothing is unacceptable, including death. Resistance means a lack of awareness. Not only does it fail to give us a sense of security, it also makes us lose the rational basis for doing things. Some things may be hard to accept, like losing a loved one or getting hurt, but we always have to accept it. So, the sooner we accept it, the sooner we can start a new life.
Having an attitude of accepting everything can make us more positive. When we accept the fact that waste exists, we will practice environmental protection more consciously. When we realize that lies are everywhere in society and accept this reality, we will be more determined to choose honesty in order to maintain trust and truth. Even just accepting the idea of "accepting everything" can help us gradually resolve our inner resistance and cultivate an inclusive attitude.
Accepting it without hesitation is actually a kind of feedback to our own lives, and it also reflects our love for life and the world. The reality of the world makes us experience life, so accepting reality means accepting everything in life. Such acceptance is not a compromise, but a wise choice. Through acceptance, we will find our true selves and discover the meaning, purpose, mission and value of life.
On June 5, 2023
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