情感關係之所以令人著迷，是因為它們像花朵一樣，散發出芬芳。同樣地，情感關係也需要培養。維持情感關係需要關心、理解和幫助，就像花朵需要陽光、雨露和養份一樣。
花朵是脆弱的，不會像鉆石那樣堅固。它在早上還在綻放，但到了晚上就可能會枯萎或雕謝。風雨也會損壞它。因此，情感關係中的雙方都非常敏感，需要給予對方很多關懷。如果一方感到受傷害，情感之窗就會關閉。當另一方受到冷落，他們的感覺也會變得消極，很容易陷入惡性循環。一旦出現這種情況，兩人就會越走越遠，最終分手，並互相指責對方背叛了初衷。
情感關係失敗的原因是缺乏溝通和理解，也就是無知。事實上，雙方都違背了建立友好關係的初衷。如果溝通渠道被固執的自我所堵塞，那麼這段關係從開始就沒有良好基礎，也注定不會長久。如果缺乏溝通，所有互動都將基於想像。一旦因衝突而將對方想像成惡魔，我們的關係就會倒退，很難再找回初次見面的感覺。
然而，很多時候，初次見面的美好只是一種幻覺。雙方都帶著面具，只想著從對方得到快樂或好處，而不去思考如何讓關係長久。這種初次見面，並不是帶著愛情的初衷，所以成為了日後痛苦的根源。
只有彼此相愛，我們才能擁有真正美好而牢固的關係。因為彼此相愛不僅是一種情感上的需要，更是一種具有豐富意識的理性行為。當有意識地建立關係，我們不僅會共度美好時光，還會思考如何推動關係向前發展。我們將變得更有創造力，讓彼此的生活更健康和快樂。
充滿愛的關係，大大降低了情感關係的脆弱性，讓我們在情感世界中向前邁進了一大步。透過相互的培養，愛的關係就像一個結晶的過程，逐漸變得完整和堅固。因此，建立彼此相愛的關係，我們的生活就會有一個穩定的幸福基礎。
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The path to Tranquility (22)
Emotional relationships are like
flowers
Emotional relationships are fascinating because, like flowers, they emit fragrance. Likewise, emotional relationships need to be nurtured. Maintaining an emotional relationship requires care, understanding, and help, just like flowers need sunlight, rain, dew, and nutrients.
Flowers are fragile and will not be as strong as diamonds. It is still blooming in the morning, but may wilt or die by evening. Wind and rain can also damage it. Therefore, both parties in the emotional relationship are very sensitive and need to give each other a lot of care. If one partner feels hurt, the emotional window closes. When the other party is left out, their feelings will also become negative and it is easy to fall into a vicious cycle. Once this happens, the two will go further and further apart, eventually breaking up and accusing each other of betraying their original intentions.
The reason emotional relationships fail is due to lack of communication and understanding, which is ignorance. In fact, both sides have violated the original intention of establishing friendly relations. If the communication channels are blocked by a stubborn ego, then the relationship will not have a good foundation from the beginning and is destined not to last. Without communication, all interactions will be based on imagination. Once we imagine the other person as a devil due to conflict, our relationship will regress and it will be difficult to regain the feeling of the first meeting.
However, many times, the beauty of the first meeting is just an illusion. Both parties wear masks and only think about getting happiness or benefits from the other party, without thinking about how to make the relationship last. This first meeting was not with the original intention of love, so it became the source of pain in the future.
We can only have a truly beautiful and strong relationship if we love each other. Because loving each other is not only an emotional need, but also a rational behavior with rich consciousness. When relationships are built intentionally, we not only spend quality time together, but we also think about how to move the relationship forward. We will become more creative and make each other's lives healthier and happier.
A relationship full of love greatly reduces the fragility of emotional relationships and allows us to take a big step forward in the emotional world. Through mutual cultivation, the love relationship is like a crystallization process, gradually becoming complete and strong. Therefore, by establishing a relationship of mutual love, our lives will have a stable foundation of happiness.
On May 23, 2023
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