命運，是每個人都無法迴避的話題，它涵蓋了我們的過去與未來。許多人相信，命運是大自然的一種安排，就像一隻看不見的手，引導著我們的人生。但實際上，生活中發生的一切，都源於我們的選擇和行動。無論生活在怎樣的環境中，我們都可以透過改變自己來影響未來，從而創造命運。
命運非常微妙，它的形成與我們的思維模式和態度息息相關。思想和情感也會變成個性的一部份，並塑造我們的生活習慣。一般來說，習慣越強，命運就越固定。由此可見，有些命運是相對固定的，有些命運變化得比較快。
擁有正確和充份的意識，以及積極和開放的心態，會讓我們以韌性與智慧去解決困難，不會輕易放棄。這樣我們的命運就會穩定和向上。相反，如果陷入負面情緒，我們就會變得被動和恐懼，難以充份發揮自己的潛力。而且，當被動和恐懼形成固執，我們就會做出不符合自己利益的選擇或行動，讓自己的命運變得坎坷。
固執是一種無意識的性格特徵，常常表現為不願意妥協。它讓我們固守於自己的觀點，無法接受別人的建議並做出改變。這種狀態會讓我們錯失成長和成功的機會，甚至在混亂中迷失方向。例如在職場中，如果總是固守自己的工作方法，不願意學習新的技能，最終我們可能會變得過時並被淘汰。
然而，固執與堅持之間的界線往往很模糊。固執是對習慣或立場的盲目捍衛，是一種無意識的行為。堅持則是基於理性思考的選擇，是面對困難和考驗時的一種有意識的安排。換句話說，固執是我們一定要站在這裡，而堅持只是看自己能站在這裡多久。因此，固執會讓我們陷入僵化的思維模式，阻礙我們適應環境的改變。而與此相反，堅持讓我們在動盪的環境中能夠穩步前行，朝著理想的目標邁進。
從命運的角度看，固執會讓我們變得像機器一樣。這時候，我們不知道命運將帶我們走到何方。與現實的脫節，讓命運如夢境般不可預測。受無意識的固執所束縛，我們的行動看似自由，但其實是浪費精力，無法應對現實的挑戰。結果是，我們要麼重蹈過去的覆轍，要麼為未來製造更多混亂。
固執不僅會影響個人的決策，還會讓我們很難與別人合作。當我們堅持己見而忽視別人的觀點，最終可能引發不必要的衝突。在團隊工作中尤其如此。如果團隊成員固執己見，決策過程就會變得緩慢且低效。這意味著，只要擁有開放的心態，我們就能從別人的經驗中受益，並拓展自己的視野。
實際上，固執是一種生活習慣，所以我們也需要擺脫它。與擺脫其他習慣一樣，我們不僅需要毅力和勇氣，還需要培養靈活的思維。生活中許多情況是難以預測的。唯有保持敏銳的觀察力和開放的心態，我們才能在變化中避免危險，發現新的機會。
如果拋開固執，以清醒的頭腦去看待命運，我們就會發現它本質就是一個因果的循環。我們可以主動選擇行動來打破這個循環，以更多的智慧與洞察力來改變自己的命運。
命運的關鍵不在於我們能否避免困難，而在於如何處理困難。命運不是一成不變的。如果能為自己的未來負責，那麼即使在不如意的情況下，我們也能找到突破的機會。每一次的挫折都是成長的機會。只要我們虛心看待問題，始終保持學習的心態，就一定能在命運的波濤中找到穩定的方向。
歸根究柢，命運取決於我們的選擇和態度。生命中的每個時刻、每個選擇，都在不斷創造我們的命運。一個人越固執，思想就越僵化，命運就越固定，生活遇到的困難就越多。只有提高意識、擁抱變化，我們才能看清自己的命運，在混亂中建立新秩序。
命運就像一面鏡子，映照出我們的內心世界。如果保留理性的堅持，不因威脅而妥協，不因情緒的改變而放棄，我們就更容易實現自己的目標和理想。這樣，我們也會創造出更美好的未來，也就是更美好的命運。
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Destiny is created by ourselves
Destiny is a topic that no one can avoid, as it covers our past and future. Many people believe that destiny is an arrangement of nature, like an invisible hand guiding our lives. But in reality, everything that happens in life stems from our choices and actions. No matter what circumstances we live in, we can influence the future by changing ourselves and thus create our own destiny.
Destiny is very subtle and its formation is closely related to our thinking patterns and attitudes. Thoughts and emotions also become part of our personality and shape our lifestyle habits. Generally speaking, the stronger the habit, the more fixed the destiny. From this we can see that some destinies are relatively fixed, while some destinies change relatively quickly.
Having the right and sufficient awareness, as well as a positive and open mindset, will allow us to solve difficulties with resilience and wisdom, and not give up easily. In this way our destiny will be stable and upward. On the other hand, if we get caught up in negative emotions, we become passive and fearful, and it is difficult for us to fully realize our potential. Moreover, when passivity and fear become stubbornness, we will make choices or actions that are not in our own interests, making our destiny bumpy.
Stubbornness is an unconscious character trait that often manifests itself as an unwillingness to compromise. It keeps us stuck in our own opinions and unable to accept the advice of others and make changes. This state will cause us to miss opportunities for growth and success, and even lose our way in the chaos. For example, in the workplace, if we always stick to our own working methods and are unwilling to learn new skills, we may eventually become obsolete and be eliminated.
However, the line between stubbornness and persistence is often blurry. Stubbornness is the blind defense of a habit or position and is an unconscious behavior. Persistence is a choice based on rational thinking and a conscious arrangement when facing difficulties and challenges. In other words, stubbornness means that we must stand here, while persistence only sees how long we can stand here. Therefore, stubbornness can trap us in rigid thinking patterns and prevent us from adapting to changes in the environment. Persistence allows us to move forward steadily in a turbulent environment and move towards our ideal goals.
From the perspective of destiny, stubbornness can make us become like machines. At this time, we don’t know where destiny will take us. The disconnection from reality makes destiny as unpredictable as a dream. Bound by unconscious stubbornness, our actions may seem free, but they are actually a waste of energy and unable to cope with the challenges of reality. The result is that we either repeat the mistakes of the past or create more chaos for the future.
Stubbornness not only affects personal decision-making, but also makes it difficult for us to work with others. When we insist on our own opinions and ignore others' views, we may end up causing unnecessary conflicts. This is especially true when working in a team. If team members are stubborn and opinionated, the decision-making process will become slow and inefficient. This means that, as long as we have an open mind, we can benefit from other people's experiences and expand our own horizons.
In fact, stubbornness is a life habit, so we need to get rid of it as well. As with getting rid of other habits, we need not only perseverance and courage, but also the cultivation of flexible thinking. Many situations in life are unpredictable. Only by maintaining keen observation and an open mind can we avoid dangers and discover new opportunities in the midst of change.
If we put aside our stubbornness and look at destiny with a clear mind, we will find that it is essentially a cycle of cause and effect. We can actively choose to act to break this cycle and change our destiny with more wisdom and insight.
The key to our destiny lies not in whether we can avoid difficulties, but in how we deal with them. Destiny is not static. If we can take responsibility for our own future, we will be able to find opportunities for breakthroughs even in unfavorable situations. Every setback is an opportunity to grow. As long as we look at problems with an open mind and always maintain a learning attitude, we will surely be able to find a stable direction in the waves of destiny.
Ultimately, our destiny depends on our choices and attitudes. Every moment and every choice in life is constantly creating our destiny. The more stubborn a person is, the more rigid his thoughts, the more fixed his destiny, and the more difficulties he encounters in life. Only by raising awareness and embracing change can we see our destiny clearly and establish a new order in chaos.
Destiny is like a mirror, reflecting our inner world. If we maintain our rational persistence, do not compromise because of threats, and do not give up because of emotional changes, it will be easier for us to achieve our goals and ideals. In this way, we will also create a better future, that is, a better destiny.
On June 18, 2023
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