命運是指生命歷程中的遭遇或結果。然而，我們的選擇和行為會影響未來，因此命運其實是自己創造的。即使只是坐等外界的安排，不去努力實現自己的目標，我們的命運仍然取決於自己的選擇。
命運由我們的思想和態度所決定。擁有足夠的意識，以及開放和積極的心態，我們的命運就會平穩向上。反之，受到負面情緒的影響，我們的命運就會變得坎坷。如果有固執的習慣，那麼我們就會做出不利自己的選擇和行為，這也是命運不好的原因。
固執是一種性格特質，雖然有時候它可以帶來成功，但那是一種僥倖，大多時候它導致的是失敗。固執的人通常守著自己的習慣和想法，不會妥協或改變，這種性格有時可以讓他們達到目的，但更多是讓他們錯失成長或成功的機會。尤其在混亂之中，固執會讓人無法走出困境，甚至走入死胡同。
擺脫了固執，即使在動盪的環境中，我們仍能享受安定的生活。只要我們的思維足夠靈活，動盪時正是發揮應變能力的好時機，不僅可以輕鬆應對生活，我們的心智更會經常受到啟發。但如果固執，我們就會關閉感官，更不想聆聽別人的意見，因此更容易與別人產生衝突，而讓生活變得糟糕。
固執不同於堅持。堅持是看看自己能在這裡站立多久，而固執卻是必須在這裡站立，是一種無意識的做法。因此，固執會創造出一種奇怪的命運，使我們變得像一台機器。這時候，與命運抗爭或者聽從命運的安排，都毫無分別。與命運抗爭，將製造更多混亂，或者重蹈覆轍，即使聽從它的安排，由於我們意識不到它的目標，也會感到無所適從，內心仍然是一片混亂。
當我們帶著意識去看命運，它只是一種規律。而當我們無意識和固執的時候，命運就代表著不可預測。命運使我們進入夢境，夢中的一切當然無法預料，但我們卻守著自己的夢而不自知。夢中我們可以做任何事，醒來卻發現那些情境都是假的。但我們的能量已消耗在夢裡，因此缺乏力量去應對現實的變遷。
越是固執己見，思維就越僵化，生活就會更混亂。因此，我們要擺脫固執。雖然混亂仍會發生，但我們能更清楚地看到它如何產生，並在混亂中建立起新秩序。固執沒有任何好處，擺脫它也不會造成任何損失。只需保留理性的堅持，不受威脅而妥協，不因情緒而改變，我們就更容易實現自己的目標和理想。這樣，我們就會有好的命運。
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Destiny is created by ourselves
Destiny refers to the encounters or outcomes in the course of life. However, our choices and actions can influence the future, so destiny is actually created by ourselves. Even if we just wait for external arrangements and do not strive to achieve our goals, our destiny still depends on our own choices.
Destiny is determined by our thoughts and attitudes. With sufficient consciousness, as well as an open and positive mindset, our destiny will be smooth and upward. On the contrary, due to the influence of negative emotions, our destiny will become bumpy. If we have a habit of being stubborn, we will make choices and actions that are not beneficial to ourselves, which is also the reason for a bad destiny.
Stubbornness is a kind of character trait. Although sometimes it can bring success, it is a fluke. Stubborn people usually stick to their habits and ideas, do not compromise or change, and this personality can sometimes help them achieve their goals, but more often it causes them to miss opportunities for growth or success. Especially in chaos, stubbornness will prevent people from getting out of trouble or even lead to a dead end.
Freed from stubbornness, even in a turbulent environment, we can still enjoy a stable life. As long as our thinking is flexible enough, turbulence is a good opportunity to demonstrate our adaptability. Not only can we handle life with ease, but our minds will also be constantly inspired. But if we are stubborn, we will close our senses and not want to listen to other people's opinions, so we are more likely to conflict with others and make our lives worse.
Stubbornness is different from persistence. Persistence is about seeing how long we can stand here, while stubbornness must stand here, and this is an unconscious approach. Therefore, stubbornness can create a strange destiny, making us become like a machine. At this time, whether we resist destiny or follow its arrangements, there is no difference. Resisting destiny will create more chaos or repeat mistakes, and even if we follow its arrangements, because we are not aware of its goals, we will still feel at a loss, and our hearts will still be in chaos.
When we look at destiny with consciousness, it is just a law. And when we are unconscious and stubborn, destiny represents unpredictability. Destiny leads us into dreams, and everything in dreams is of course unpredictable, but we hold onto our dreams without realizing it. We can do anything in our dreams, only to find out when we wake up that those situations were fake. But our energy has been consumed in dreams, so we lack the strength to deal with changes in reality.
The more stubborn we are, the more rigid our thinking becomes, and the more chaotic our life will be. Therefore, we need to get rid of stubbornness. Although chaos will still occur, we can see more clearly how it arises and establish a new order in the chaos. Stubbornness has no advantages, and getting rid of it will not cause any losses. We just need to maintain rational persistence, not compromise under threat, and not change due to emotions, so that we can more easily achieve our goals and ideals. In this way, we will have a good destiny.
On June 18, 2023
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