寧靜的心跡(29) 真誠有益於生命


在多數人都真誠的環境中,真誠很容易,但在充滿虛偽和欺騙的環境中,真誠就很困難,我們甚至會對真誠產生疑慮和恐懼。儘管如此,只要重視自己的生命,我們也會有充份的理由去保持真誠,因為真誠是一種非常重要的品質,可以對我們的生命產生積極的影響。

真誠是活得舒適的一個重要因素。即使真誠有機會被欺騙或傷害,也比虛假地活著要容易得多。當我們以真誠對待別人,就可以建立信任和尊重的關係,更容易與別人溝通,並在需要時得到支持和幫助。當我們對自己保持真誠,就可以更好地了解自己的需求,並更容易實現自己的目標。

真誠是成功的關鍵。一個人的能力有限,很多事業都需要與其他人合作,如果對別人真誠,我們就比較容易找到長期的合作夥伴。尤其是愛情,沒有真誠根本不可能真正相愛,每一個嘗試都將失敗。時刻保持真誠,讓別人看到我們真實的一面,彼此也能及時發現導致合作失敗的因素。

真誠不是那種不知風險的無畏,而是因為我們知道真誠的魔力,所以克服了恐懼而敞開,不僅展現自己的優點,也讓自己的缺點暴露出來。真誠能讓我們接受並改變自己,從而改變外部世界。當我們接受被人欺騙的可能,也不怕被別人看見自己的缺點,那麼恐懼就會減少,意識也會增長。當我們變得難以欺騙,那些騙子也會改變。不真誠的誘因是貪婪,而貪婪就容易上當。因此,當騙子發現我們是真誠的人,就被迫轉移目標了。

真誠不單是信賴別人,更是一種理性的自信。能夠確信真誠是對自己的一種保障,我們就能時刻保持真誠。這意味著我們也對自己真誠和開放。知道自己的不足,因此努力學習。沒有不能回顧的過去,對未來的想像也沒有禁區。這樣不僅能使我們增長意識,也能使我們的情緒更穩定,身心更加健康。

只要保持真誠,常常打開心扉與別人交流,讓內心的智慧種子得到意識之光的照耀,那麼,我們的內心不僅會開出友善和美麗的花朵,還會讓生命有更充份的保障。


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目錄



The path to Tranquility (29)
Sincerity is beneficial to life


In an environment where most people are sincere, it is easy to be sincere, but in an environment full of hypocrisy and deception, it is difficult to be sincere, and we may even have doubts and fears about sincerity. Nonetheless, as long as we value our lives, we will have every reason to be sincere, because sincerity is a very important quality that can have a positive impact on our lives.

Sincerity is an important factor in living comfortably. Even if sincerity has the opportunity to be deceived or hurt, it is much easier than living falsely. When we treat others with sincerity, we can build relationships of trust and respect, make it easier to communicate with others, and receive support and help when needed. When we maintain sincerity with ourselves, we can better understand our own needs and more easily achieve our goals.

Sincerity is the key to success. One person's ability is limited, and many undertakings require cooperation with others. If we are sincere with others, we are more likely to find long-term partners. Especially in love, it is impossible to truly love without sincerity, and every attempt will fail. Be sincere at all times, let others see our true side, and each other can also promptly discover the factors that lead to failure of cooperation.

Sincerity is not the kind of fearlessness without knowing the risks, but because we know the magic power of sincerity, we overcome fear and open up, not only showing our strengths, but also exposing our shortcomings. Sincerity allows us to accept and change ourselves, thereby changing the external world. When we accept the possibility of being deceived and are not afraid of others seeing our shortcomings, then fear decreases and consciousness increases. When we become difficult to deceive, those fraudsters will also change. The incentive for insincerity is greed, and greed is easy to be deceived. Therefore, when fraudsters discover that we are sincere people, they are forced to change their targets.

Sincerity is not only about reliance on others but also a kind of rational self-confidence. If we can be sure that sincerity is a guarantee for ourselves, we can maintain sincerity at all times. This means that we are also sincere and open to ourselves. Be aware of our shortcomings and study hard. There is no past that cannot be reviewed, and there is no off-limits area for imagining the future. This not only allows us to increase our consciousness but also makes our emotions more stable and our body and mind healthier.

As long as we maintain sincerity, often open our hearts to communicate with others, and allow the seeds of wisdom in our hearts to be illuminated by the light of consciousness, then our inner selves will not only bloom friendly and beautiful flowers, but also provide more ample security for our lives.


On May 29, 2023


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